Is it becoming more difficult for women to get pregnant?
Part II of III
2. The emotional level:
When I ask
women with the desire to have children to imagine being pregnant, or having a
child, they tell me the most varied feelings, fears and anxieties.
emotions act like an inner saboteur of the pregnancy. I have put together a
list of the feelings that I have heard most frequently over the years:
or staying alone with a child without support
being able to handle change
life is not predictable any more
having time for myself any more
too old and that my sexual organs are not functioning well enough any more
too weak for a child
to fight all the time
totally stressed with a child
being practical or perfect enough
not being good enough
mistakes during and after the pregnancy
stuck at home and not able to see my friends any more, being excluded
at home, because I have worked with dedication and I merged in my job
being able to protect my child
birth to a little monster that is very difficult
overwhelmed by a very demanding child
getting along with the child
the child starve
death of the child after birth
the child could get unhappy
the child could get ill
that the child could be taken away
my negative feelings and thoughts could prevent a pregnancy
my child the same way my parents handled me
the same difficulties as my mother when she was pregnant with me
my child could have the same traumatic experiences as myself like abuse, rape, etc.
my partner may only take care of the child and neglect me
being number one, not being the queen any more
a girl when my partner wishes to have a boy and vice versa
the relationship with my partner: the child could come between us
being able to rely on my partner, being without emotionalsecurity
reactions and difficulties from the children who are already there
the same problems with my other children could be repeated
the unborn child because of my previous miscarriages
punished because of my previous abortion
doctors and their messages
it has not worked out yet: “everyone except me can get pregnant”
of my previous abortion
I am angry
jealous when I see pregnant women or women with little children
my parents and refuse to give them a grandchild
and guilt do influence our energy system a lot, and block the optimal
functioning of meridians and Chakras.
What can you do?
Logosynthesis are wonderful tools to free yourself from anxieties and other
negative emotions and to silence the inner saboteur. You can assume that fears
and anxieties are issues of your past, which get projected on a pregnancy.
you need help with these issues, I would be glad to offer my support.