Part I: The physical level

Teil II - deutsch

Is it becoming more difficult for
women to get pregnant?

Part II of III

2. The emotional level:

When I ask women with the desire to have children to imagine being pregnant, or having a child, they tell me the most varied feelings, fears and anxieties.

Negative emotions act like an inner saboteur of the pregnancy. I have put together a list of the feelings that I have heard most frequently over the years:

I fear

• being or staying alone with a child without support
• gaining weight
• not being able to handle change
• that life is not predictable any more
• not having time for myself any more
• being too old and that my sexual organs are not functioning well enough any more
• being too weak for a child
• having to fight all the time

• being totally stressed with a child
• not being practical or perfect enough
• failing, not being good enough
• making mistakes during and after the pregnancy
• being stuck at home and not able to see my friends any more, being excluded
• being at home, because I have worked with dedication and I merged in my job

• not being able to protect my child
• giving birth to a little monster that is very difficult
• being overwhelmed by a very demanding child
• not getting along with the child
• letting the child starve
• the death of the child after birth
• that the child could get unhappy
• that the child could get ill
• that the child could be taken away
  

• that my negative feelings and thoughts could prevent a pregnancy
• handling my child the same way my parents handled me
• experiencing the same difficulties as my mother when she was pregnant with me
• that my child could have the same traumatic experiences as myself like abuse, rape, etc.

• that my partner may only take care of the child and neglect me
• not being number one, not being the queen any more
• having a girl when my partner wishes to have a boy and vice versa
• burdening the relationship with my partner: the child could come between us
• not being able to rely on my partner, being without emotional security
• the reactions and difficulties from the children who are already there
• that the same problems with my other children could be repeated
• losing the unborn child because of my previous miscarriages
• being punished because of my previous abortion
• hospitals, doctors and their messages

I feel guilty

• because it has not worked out yet: “everyone except me can get pregnant”
• because of my previous abortion

I am angry

• and jealous when I see pregnant women or women with little children
• at my parents and refuse to give them a grandchild

Fear, anger and guilt do influence our energy system a lot, and block the optimal functioning of meridians and Chakras.

What can you do?

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